How To Stop The On Again Off Again Love Game

“I did my best but I guess my best wasn’t good enough cause here we are back where we were before” The lyrics from the smooth James Ingram’s song titled Just Once released in 1981 . The melody is catchy and if you listen to the words James is certainly trying to relay to his sweetie […]

How Sleeping Patterns Reveal Successful Relationships

  Do you know the position your partner sleeps in can affirm their true feelings? Where in waking hours one can hide their true feeling through speech and body language how they really feel cannot be faked or suppressed during sleep. Below are couple sleeping positions and their meanings. Read up on them and how […]

EDUCATION and PROTECTION: The Keys to Online Dating Success

    Oftentimes, I encounter online daters who have followed the adage: “Ready, Fire, Aim.” And they typically regret it.  Successful online dating requires two successful elements: Education and Protection. Education takes many forms, from learning about which websites are best for you (straight or gay, younger or more mature, special lifestyle interests) to adopting online behaviors that don’t create false expectations […]

The Ten Commandments for Fair Fighting

  Part 3 of 3 in the Conflict Resolution blog series You can’t make anyone do right, but you can control how you react and what you put into the relationship. Are you doing everything that you can in your relationship to live peaceably with your spouse? “Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called […]

Stop Killing Your Relationships

  Part 2 of 3 in the Conflict Resolution blog series So many people break up or divorce and get into a new relationship and keep making the same mistakes that caused the original break-up. There is a syndrome called Fight or Flight Syndrome. This is a coping system in people and animals. Men tend to […]