Why Being a Giver is Overrated

Allowing yourself to receive may sound like a very easy thing to do, though for a great many it is extremely difficult. The type of “receiving” I’m talking about is the “let others do for you” kind that just seems to go against the nature of most caregivers and healers. While others may not feel worthy of good things […]

Cultivating Self Intimacy

  Our bodies have a delicious and intricate map to pleasure. I encourage my clients to stole along every path to help their lovers navigate pleasing them with ease and confidence.   Intimate self cultivation is another way to describe self pleasure since the term masturbation seems to have a negative connotation with many. Learning […]

EDUCATION and PROTECTION: The Keys to Online Dating Success

    Oftentimes, I encounter online daters who have followed the adage: “Ready, Fire, Aim.” And they typically regret it.  Successful online dating requires two successful elements: Education and Protection. Education takes many forms, from learning about which websites are best for you (straight or gay, younger or more mature, special lifestyle interests) to adopting online behaviors that don’t create false expectations […]

Cyber Connections (Buffering…….)

  Dating today certainly is not what it used to be with social media, texting and video phoning so readily available. The personable aspect has been removed to a great extent, leaving individuals without the ability to read facial expressions or body language in the flesh, which is a great tool in determining whether or not a person […]

The Ten Commandments for Fair Fighting

  Part 3 of 3 in the Conflict Resolution blog series You can’t make anyone do right, but you can control how you react and what you put into the relationship. Are you doing everything that you can in your relationship to live peaceably with your spouse? “Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called […]