Do you have a plan for introducing your new relationship to your child?

If you answered YES

If you answered YES, you have a specific plan to introduce a potential mate and you have discussed that plan with your mate.

If you answered NO

If you answered NO, make clear parameters for a mate meeting your child(ren) this will help you realize the potential of a long term relationship.

(a) Make a list of parameters for a potential mate to meet your child(ren), remember they will be different for everyone. (b) Think about adding the following parameters:
1. After you both have decided the relationship is exclusive.
2. When you are clear about what type of relationship they have with their ex and children.